Two years ago when our nephew
Ryan was six, he decided to throw a rock at a beehive to see if he could outrun
the bees. Twenty-something beestings later, it appeared the bees had won.
The next time I saw Ryan, I said
something like, “Well, I guess if you see another beehive, you won’t go
anywhere near it.”
He thought about it for a few
seconds and shook his head. “I don’t know Aunt Carol. Sometimes when I see
things, I just have to try them.”
He went on to explain how
next time he would ask his father to drive him up close to the beehive in his
truck. Ryan planned to lower his window, hurl his rocks and quickly close the
window. He was pretty sure his new plan was fool-proof.
This is the same nephew that
at 3 years old, after his father dug a hole on the beach that was about 5 feet
wide and 3 feet deep, stood on the edge, spread his arms and flung his body toward
the other side singing, “I believe I can fly.”
Although, it occasionally gives
his mother palpitations, you gotta love his spunky zest to try new things.
Which brings me to the heart
of this week’s blog.
If you have followed 4Broadminds
from the start, you know our first blog about summer’s four seasons ran in
October, a.k.a. late summer. Here we are
three seasons later and many of you stop me at work or in the neighborhood to praise
the blog, a number of you regularly send email comments to my home email. What most
of you have not done and swear you cannot or are afraid to try is comment right
here on the blog.
I hope today is the day we
end all that.
It is easy. I am so sure you
can do it, I have set a personal goal to get at least 20 comments on this post—stretch
goal is 25! If you know me well, you know how goal oriented I am. So what do
you say? Will you help me meet this goal?
Here’s all you have to do.
At the bottom of this entry
you will see a line that looks like this:
Posted by Carol Fragale Brill
at 6:28 PM 3 comments
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Simply click on
the word comments and a blank box will pop up.
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Type your
comment.
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Under the comment
box you will see “Comment As.” You can pick one of the profiles listed, for example,
Google, if you have a Google email account, or keep it really simple and just
pick anonymous. (If you choose anonymous, I hope you will include at least your
first name in the comment box, so we know who you are.)
If Ryan can face a swarm of bees, you can face commenting on our blog. Just take a page from Ryan’s playbook, strap on your life vest and flippers
and take the plunge.
Good job, Carol. Always training! Claudia
ReplyDeleteNever be afraid to try something new. Remember, amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic! Love the blog Carol! Marion Stamopoulos
ReplyDeleteLove this thought, thanks for sharing it.
DeleteJust saw Ryan who mentioned he "was so excited because Aunt Carol was putting his story in the news!". Hope you reach your goal! -Kristina
ReplyDeleteHave to put in my 2 cents! - Julie V
ReplyDeleteCarol, great story! We all need to confront our fear of new things! Thanks ! Donna
ReplyDeleteGreat story! We all need to try something new! Donna
ReplyDeleteHi Carol,
ReplyDeleteI do read everything that gets sent to my email BUT this is my 1st Blog. So I guess that makes me a virgin blogger. And unlike Ryan, if there is one BEE, or Yellow Jacket, or Wasp
anywhere within my vision, I quickly reach the hysteria stage as I run with arms flailing and high-pitched screams of "Is it near ME"? This is actually one time when I'm not jealous of the impetuousness of youth. Mary C
Ah,the wisdom I think is finding the balance between prudent caution and risk taking so we keep learning new things.
Deletethanks for making us your first blog. carol
Starting this blog felt like a huge and scary new thing for me-it was made much easier by sharing the load with friends a.k.a. the other "broads."
ReplyDeleteAnd now comments from reader/friends like you make the bee stings along the way worth it .
Thank you, thank you, thank you .
Eleanor Roosevelt said "Do one thing everyday that scares you." I might be done for the day:) Here's to getting to 25 comments!
ReplyDeleteLove the quote and thanks as always for making me smile. good to get the scary stuff done early and ease throught the rest of the day.
DeleteWay to go Carol. Love your nephew's lust for life (but tell him that bees are our friends so he leaves their hives alone.) Like you, I have been fascinated by the people I know who read the blog and then just reply to me by email.
ReplyDeleteWhen people reply to the comments all blog readers benefit from the insight. I know I love to read the comments to our posts. So c'mon readers, let's hear what you have to say.
I'm number 8....
Okay, I'm up to the challenge. However, while I love the story about Ryan and his love of new things, I was hoping you were blogging about beekeeping, right up there with vineyards as a new agricultural endeavor in Cape May County...Anyway, great blog, great message.
ReplyDeleteNice weaved story, Carol, and, quite the encourager! I see you have action! Laura
ReplyDeleteFun stories about resourceful Ryan! Hope you make your goal of 25.
ReplyDeleteLibby
Thanks to all who commented today - we are halfway there.
ReplyDeleteI think I can, I think I can :)
I hope you reach your goal, Carol. I always enjoy seeing your posts. :-) Ethan
ReplyDeletethanks Ethan,great to know you are out there looking in
DeleteAlways love your storytelling, Carol. Now to begin channeling Ryan and you as I tackle my expanding list of goals!
ReplyDeleteRyan's advice might be to tackle them in one running leap--mine is one small step at a time :)
DeleteEvery journey begins with one giant leap - that kid maybe on to something.
ReplyDeleteTina
I have been a huge fan from the beginning! I love the blog and I look forward to the stories created by such amazing women. Thanks for sharing such creativity with us!! Janine Begasse
ReplyDeleteThanks Janine. being called an amazing woman by an amazing woman is . . .priceless
ReplyDeleteAfter laughing hysterically at the story, it made me think. What happened to the fearlessness of our youth? Watching kids dare to do something different without fear, constraints or what others will think, or at times if it's even the wisest thing to do, is something most adults have lost. If your fortunate enough to find your way back and regain that courage, throw a rock at it and see what happens! That type of mentality is what drives me to step out of my 'reading' comfort zone, and pull on the mantel of a 'writer'. As a young kid, I never would have thought storytelling would be for me. It turns out that it is. Hopefully the 'bees' I get stung with will be the result of success...either way, it's worth the effort...and the exercise! LOL
ReplyDeleteBTW, I think I'm comment number 25! Is there a prize for that? Haa haa ha!
MJ, does my giddy graditude count as a prize?
ReplyDeleteYour comments remind me that being fearless does not mean we are without fear. It means we muster the courage to try things even when we are afraid.
I'm late with my comment, but very pleased to see so many new commenters! I applaud you all. I think it's good to do something that scares us every once in awhile. Helps keep us awake in our lives.
ReplyDeleteI am with Julie. commenters, please keep coming back
ReplyDeleteOh, if only we could all catch a bit of Ryan's spirit. He'll recover from the bee stings and never forget the experience. :-)
ReplyDeleteBy the way, my poem came in 3rd place in the contest at the conference. It's here if you'd like to see it:
oneglassofwater.wordpress.com/2012/05/13/me-of-course/
Keep on beeing! 8-)
congratulations on your poem. I will definitely check it out.
DeleteTurns out my very short essay ( a rewrite of the Goldilocks blog on this site) came in 3rd in the essay contest.
Enjoyed meeting you.